Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 % discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart.
The first step in the heart-winning exercise for any man is to make a good impression on you. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be a man of his own style. Be unique, that's all you need.
A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful . This above all other things would make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she will have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.
A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful . This above all other things would make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she will have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.
Try to let her fall in love gradually and slowly. Romance is very important part of falling in love. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." The story of our love affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me in the romantic manner.
Be friending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You must understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create a room for you in her heart.
You must be creative and constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one time that I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sit opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes and hand signs. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, I write a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?
Don't ever fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a kingsized hug for me. No matter how many dates you took her, don't make any elbow - exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don't kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it come to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.
The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you cannot have her just yet.
The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you cannot have her just yet.
Try to increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Try to make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you'll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.
Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it was ready. The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.
I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams As Soon As Possible, make her fall in love with you, and try to make her feel the happiest girl in the world!